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✌️ #mindfulnessmonday ✌️ ⠀ “Love without conditions” ⠀ This week brings Valentine's Day, a time to celebrate of one of the most beautiful conditions we experience as humans, love. However, there seems to be a bit of confusion with regard to what we consider is love now a days versus romanticism. ⠀ The difference between love and romanticism is attachment. We all know the fairy tale story of finding the perfect one who can fulfill all your needs that you can live happily ever after with. The truth is that level of expectation is unbearable for any human being to bear, including yourself. Romanticism is rooted in a place of fear and dependency, and has more to do with self than love of another. ⠀ For true love to flourish and express itself naturally, we must come to the realization that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, story, or person that can make us whole. We are all individuals on our own evolutionary paths. After that basis is set, love in its truest form is the desire to experience and share that evolutionary journey with another person free of judgement or expectations. ⠀ One of my favorite writings from Osho describes a flower in the wild. When we seek to poses the flower, we pick it and the process end up killing it. If we truly love the flower we would let it grow and evolve in it’s natural environment. ⠀ Love in it's truest form is not rooted in a condition or expectation but rather what you can share with another because you are already full yourself. Avoid confusing it with romanticism and remove the conditions you put on your love.
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